Archive for March, 2012

Women’s Day!

Do we really need a separate day for women?

Yes we do.

Because we still need to educate the world…

…that it is not a woman’s fault if she is raped.

…that there is nothing wrong with a woman who chooses to be single.

…that there is nothing wrong with a woman who chooses to not have children.

…that it is okay if a woman has chosen to get divorced.

…that daughters are just as good as sons.

…that just because a woman may wear what she wants to attract admiring looks, doesn’t mean she wants to be touched without permission.

…that a woman who is assertive and knows what she wants is not necessarily a bitch.

…that a widow’s life doesn’t have to end once her husband dies.

…that a woman who likes to have sex is not a slut. Especially when a man doing the same is considered a stud.

…that if a woman chooses to sleep with a man, it doesn’t mean she has given him and his friends permission to film it.

…that if a woman chooses to drink and smoke, it doesn’t make her any worse than a man doing the same. 

…that if a woman gets drunk, it is not an open invitation to have sex with her.

…that a woman who works full-time despite having children is not a bad mother. No matter what the ‘experts’ say.

…that a woman who is a stay-at-home-mum by choice is not a curse on woman-hood.

…that women do not need to be isolated when menstruating on a monthly basis and are not ‘impure’.

…that a husband or boyfriend does not have the right to hit his wife or girlfriend.

…that without women, the world would not exist. After all, men can’t continue the human race on their own!

So yes, we still need a day to let the world know that equality does not yet exist for women in several parts of the world. While things are getting better, we still have a long way to go. To accept women as they are rather than judge them for every single thing. 

Life Goes On…

We don’t care about people who are willing to die for us and die for people who don’t care about us”.

Every relation has a story to tell, it’s like watching a movie. Ever thought about how you met your best friend years ago, how the friend you hated the most soon became your love interest, there must be instances where it was love at first sight and also where some thought you were good fun to hang out with.

They say that friendship is the stepping stone towards love, you start with being good friends, go on coffee dates, have dinner with each other, nights are spent with conversations over the phone, you pluck flower petals and hope that the last petal would say “he/she loves me”, you are in doubt but you think it’s worth a try, so you decide to go ahead jump into the ocean of love and swim together with your loved one, life is all flowery till you realize that may be you are drowning and soon you’ll be the reason to drown the other person too, so you decide to move on in life till you find some other life boat who’ll get you out of this mess, so does that make you a Bitch or the opposite person an Asshole?

We often forget that it all started with being friends and maybe the love part of it has got over but friendship still remains alive…

As life goes on, we begin and end a few relations, some by choice and some forcefully, but there are some people whom we just don’t want to let go, as they tend to occupy a very special place in our heart. It’s all about a matter of time, all we need is just little bit of understanding as to what we expect out of ourselves and people around us and things will fall in place.

Sometimes we just need to distance ourselves from everybody just to get to know ourselves better, if they care, they’ll understand and if they don’t, you know where you stand!!

Life is like a roller coaster ride, whether you choose to scream or enjoy the ride is your choice!!!

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