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Marriage Ceremonies – A Life Changing Journey

Marriage is a phase, in which the bride or the groom, both goes through many changes. A lot of feelings overshadow their daily routines, sometimes one feels happy for starting a new life, while sometimes, thoughts of leaving our maternal home upsets our mind. Marriage is the biggest connection, one gets in his lifetime. This is the stage, where the person suddenly starts realizing himself as a grown man, and everybody starts lecturing him for the things to be taken care of, in his future life. Every relative or friend, is found giving hundreds of advices, to the bride and the groom, whether it’s an Indian marriage or a marriage in a foreign land.

Though marriage ceremonies in all consumes only few days, but the arrangements and the after effects of the marriage continues for months and years. Whether it’s a girl or a boy, marriage is a big responsibility for families of both the sides. Marriages in India are a grand affair,with  lot of rituals and ceremonies in the wedding procedure, which marks the traditional culture of the country.

Marriage ceremonies can also be called as a journey, which both the bride and groom cover from their single hood to being married or committed. A lot of changes are observed in the lifestyles of the couple. It’s not only, the house or the home that changes for the bride after marriage, but it’s the whole family or the whole living style of the person that gets transformed. The habits, likes, dislikes, hobbies, daily practices, all needs to be adopted and implemented according to the cultures and practices followed in the house of the in- laws.

The bride or the groom both needs to be very conscious, about their behavior in front of the prospective family and relatives. The tag of being married, is in itself is a great responsibility, which forces the bride or the groom to be very elegant and intellectual in their behavior and clothing style. The dressing sense of the married couple undergoes a lot of changes. It marks their transformation from the bachelorhood to a married man or woman. The different add- on to the woman attire like choora, sindur, make- up, jewelery are the elements, which help in differentiating a wed man or woman from a single girl or guy.

Other than the change in the lifestyle or the dressing sense of the married couple, a sense of responsibility is also felt by the person, which urges him to think and act more maturely. Family issues and matters, tend to be of more importance to the married couple. Also, the decisions taken about the life or any other change in the profession needs to be discussed with the life partner, because any decision, whether small or big, can lead to great consequences in the future, and to decrease the possibility of such incidences, it is better that a discussion is done within the couple to avoid future blame games.

 

Few Secrets Which Men Never Reveal

A women’s heart is said to keep a hundred secrets but it is true for men as well. Maybe not hundred but there are few secrets which men always hate to reveal. When in a relationship, he might tell you everything about himself but he prefers to hide a few facts of his life. This does not mean he is being untrue. Every man has his own reason of keeping their secrets.

What Are These Men Secrets?

1.He Still Gets Attracted To Girls –It is a known fact that it is very easy to seduce a guy. Men even when in a relationship, can’t help getting attracted to another beautiful girl passing by. It does not mean he does not find you attractive. It’s a men trait which is inevitable.

There is no harm in men looking at other girls, till the time he limits himself to that and most men in relationship do that. Girls, don’t bother even if you catch him looking at other girls. Your fussing can make things go worse.

2.Friends Come First – Men value their friends more than their girl. ‘You come first’, they may tell their girl but it is not true. Men love to enjoy without bindings and it is possible only with friends. After a long tiring day, he looks for friends to enjoy and comes back to his love to relax.

Girls, never try and come between him and his friends. Men hate this behaviour and a women who detaches her man from his friends, looses the relationship at some point of time.

3.Past Relationship – Men always avoid talking about their past relationship. It was a failure and thinking about it hurts him. He feels insecure to tell his present girl friend or wife all the details. He is scared that it will spoil the present.

Advice for girls is that, they should not probe into his past relationship a lot. Probing will disturb him and he is sure to show a negative reaction. Let the past be and accept him in present.

4.Men Are Conservative – Men love to show themselves as someone with modern thoughts but when it comes to their girl friend or wife, they are conservative. He might be sparing a glance at a hot girl but he never wants other guys to look at you. He wants you to dress hip but abiding by their rules.

Men can’t help being possessive about their loved ones. There is no harm in it. Infact it is good, until things cross their limits.

These are the top four secrets about men and it is advised to girls to let the men have their secrets. The less you probe into it, the better and longer the relationship stays.

Small Fights of Married life

Marriage is a very sweet bond, which gains its strength with time. It is very important for you and your life partner to give time and space to each other, so that to have a well maintained married life. Marriage is the bond, which needs a lot of care and time to come at a stage, where both, you and your life partner understand each other very well and have no scope for doubts and misunderstandings.

It is very hard to think about a healthy and happy married life without small fights because these small-2 fights add many colours and emotions to our tasteless life. Generally, every person wants that he or she will not fight with his or her spouse; however, many times many such situations emerge in front of us when these fights take place. Mostly, these fights are not of any great significance and soon, we have happy endings. It is also said, the more you fight with your life partner, you are bound to form stronger bond with him. So, there is no harm in having small tiffs with your partner, because in a way, it gives an opportunity to know his highs and lows.

 

When two people understand each other well and they have love for each other then soon, they forget all issues and again unite with each others. These fights dies as fast as fast they emerge in most of cases; therefore, they do not make harm to us. However, these fights can be fatal for any relationship if people fight too much or these fights lead to more big fights. In general, no person wants to fight however, due to differences in thinking and approach between different people; we see some fights taking place in all married lives.

For the success of any relationship, it is good to not take these problems very seriously and forget them soon. Many times, these small fights of married life do become good memories and we enjoy remembering them again and again. I do not want say that one should fight in his or her married life; however, I just want to say that one should not take these fights much seriously. Always try and learn from your mistakes and you must keep it in mind that you must not repeat those mistakes, which would annoy your life partner.

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